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I was single for quite a while, by choice. However, I decided it was time to see what was going on in the world around me. I joined Oasis just to see who was about, not really expecting to find anyone at all.
After chatting for a while with various people, I found someone who I really clicked with. After a month of chatting and getting to know each other (mainly because circumstance prevented meeting beforehand) we met up and went for a day at the beach, which turned into a weekend, we found we still had so much to find out and wanted to know.
Our story started great we only lived a 90 minute drive away so we started to meet more and more. After 1 month I asked her out and so started our journey, she is Filipina and unfortunately her visa expired, but despite this I have been to see her and we have contact every day and our relationship is growing stronger and stronger.
We have now been together almost 2 years and at Christmas I proposed to her and she accepted. I am planning to go there for a couple of years and continue my career before we come back to the UK as husband and wife.
To all that are not sure, go with your gut it is usually right, take it at the pace that is right for you and like us I am sure you will find that person that is right for you. It has been the best journey so far and there is a long way still to go.
I had never had time for dating or going out, I was either working or when I had some spare time, I enjoyed it going fishing.
Whilst one evening on a weekend fishing trip I got to thinking something was missing in my life. That special person, we know is out there but rarely find. Then with a lul of bites I stumbled across Oasis. I had heard before of dating sites but was not sure if it was a good idea or not. But something inside told me to go for it.
I had a funny picture of myself with a catch in the summer and set this as my profile picture, a slight description of myself and my likes/dislikes. Every now and again I would check the site for my matches and messages. Nothing for about 2 months. I was ready to stop checking when I received a like and a short message from someone not too far away from where I lived.
After a few messages we exchanged numbers. Then decided it would be nice to meet up for a coffee. It was the best thing I have ever done! I have met the most amazing lady, my soulmate. I never thought I would but I have. And I have Oasis to thank for that.
People laugh about dating sites, I have in the past, but it just goes to show that sometimes a little bit of help finds you happiness. Thanks again Oasis. And good luck to everyone. Hopefully like us you will find your soulmate too!
I have met the man of my dreams thanks to Oasis! He is tall, handsome and has a great personality. We are both totally in love and I am planning to move to his home town in USA, but we will be getting married before we leave South Africa.
I love this guy so much, he has shown me what love is and to never give up on someone. He is truly my bestfriend, lover and soulmate x
I met a lovely man on Oasis. The only one I met and we instantly clicked. We have so much in common and just fit each other perfectly. We are now expecting a baby in September this year!
Thank you Oasis. If it weren't for this singles site we wouldn't be so happy.
3 months after getting out of a 3 year relationship, I decided I was ready to find someone special and on November 1st, 2014, I did just that.
He added me and we chatted for a while and discovered we had so much in common, it was almost scary.
I had just finished work at 12am so we were talking on the phone and by 4am we decided we had to meet up and seeing as neither of us were tired, we met up that morning.
We met at the local Woolworths, chatted for a while and went for a drive up through the hills and watched the sun come up.
When It came time for him to go home we hugged and said our goodbyes, I stood there as he walked towards the car, he opened the door and froze, looked back at me and almost ran back and hugged me tighter than ever, it had only been a day but I knew I was head over heels for him and he was perfect for me.
I always thought this was the kind of thing that only happens in the movies but I couldn't have been more wrong...I've finally found my dream man!