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The greatest feeling!
I am writing to say thank you so very, very much for bringing my wife to be and I together. On Boxing Day I proposed to her and she accepted, bestowing upon me the greatest honour and privilege of becoming her husband.
We met on through your site and I feel it fitting to tell you our story so far.......
Our story begins one night in April last year, I hadn’t been a member of Oasis for very long, yet woke up just gone midnight with an unexplained urge to log on. I came across a profile that stood out, her profile picture was stunning and we shared many interests. I sent her a request and within minutes she had accepted. We started talking online and had an instant connection. Considering the time of night, we only talked for about an hour but organised to talk the following evening.
As planned we spoke the following night and the excitement I felt when I logged on and she was there was immense. This carried on for a couple of weeks, we kept sending flirts and funny messages to each other when offline and things got quite serious very quickly. She was on my mind all day every day. I couldn’t concentrate on work and all I wanted to do was meet her. We kept trying to arrange to meet but we lived 50 miles apart and both had things planned in our diaries. It worked out that we would have to wait until late May before we could finally meet and that was over a month away.
Within a week of chatting on the phone, we both knew how we felt. The connection we had was so strong, and yet we both felt we were getting carried away with ourselves. It was quite scary how deep our feelings were despite never actually meeting. One night came and I couldn’t contain my feelings anymore, I had to tell her how I felt. I said the three words I had been feeling for a while, and whilst I was so nervous in saying it, not wanting to scare her off as we had known each other for so little time, I could not deny my emotions. “I love you”, I said. There was only a pause for about one second, but it felt like an eternity on the phone. She replied, “I love you too”. The nerves I had, the butterflies in my stomach vanished instantly and were replaced with sheer joy.
We both closed our Oasis accounts down and we spoke about how good it felt choosing the reason why we closed our account down being that we had met someone.
Having told each other how we felt, it was now impossible to wait until the end of May before we could meet. Luckily enough my Easter plans had been cancelled so we decided to meet then.
When I arrived, I parked up and she met me on the street outside her house. My arms were full with bags of clothes and it looked like I had come home from the army. As we approached each other I dropped all my bags on the pavement and we kissed passionately like we had been together for years.
We have only been apart one night ever since. Within a few weeks we were talking about me moving in, and I was very conscious of how the kids would react. I had grown close to them during that time, but I wanted them to want me to move in before I did. A few days later, totally out of the blue her daughter asked me when I was moving in. I asked her whether she would be happy with that, and she said yes, explaining that she had never seen her mum so happy and that she liked me.
I knew the commute to work every day would be tiring, but I knew it’d be worth it. By July I had moved in totally and started my new life, with a new role as a father too. I had always wanted to be a dad, and I now had this family life I had always craved. I had never been happier.
The proposal was a big secret, yet all her friends and family knew all about it. I proposed on Boxing Day, with the ring hidden in a Christmas cracker and she accepted. We are planning to marry in the summer.
So thanks again Oasis, I have met the most beautiful, caring, kind, and loving woman and looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her.
I hope other members of your site find the happiness that we have!
Perfect Match!
Oasis Active was recommended to me from a very good friend who had met her partner on here.
Within a week I had been matched with a man and after 2 days we decided we HAD to see each other, we spent 2 nights on the phone talking about so much, and then we met.
The first kiss and my knees were weak!!! We both know without any doubt that we are each other's soul mate. We are planning for our future. Thank you so much guys, you made our life complete.
loved for being just me!
After trying several dating sites my cousin who had found a great fella told me to try Oasis. I thought ‘what have I got to loose’ so gave it a go.
After a few disasters a lovely fella with a great profile caught my eye we had chatted before briefly but just never followed through. After chatted for 24hours we agreed to meet the next day.
We spent a few hours together and agreed to meet up again. After he left we texted each other all afternoon, so I asked if he would like to meet up again that evening and we have never looked back.
We have been inseparable from that moment, he’s now moving in and we are planning a life together. He makes me laugh and I smile every day.
So to anyone who doubts dating sites all I can say is give it a try, I did and found the love of my life, my soul mate. Thanks oasis for making me whole and my life complete again.
Moved for Love!
I was sent a friend request from a charming guy and from the minute we starting chatting, we clicked.
We talked every night for two months before we swapping phone numbers. Latino1972 travelled to see me in October and from the first moment, we knew. I have moved cities to be with him and we are now living together.
He came just at the right time in my life and he is the most important thing to me. We are an oasis success story!
What a whirlwind romance!
I had been on & off Oasis for a few months, when I received a request from a guy who seemed perfect.
We spent 2 months chatting on Oasis before we exchanged phone numbers. Our phone calls went for hours! The first one was 6 hrs. Crazy! So after a week of long chats we had to meet & well.....That date was a number of hours. The second date was 12 hours with shopping, a movie, dinner, bowling & chats in the RSL lounge.
After that, we pretty much spent nearly every night together going between our 2 houses. Our families were excited for us which made it so much better!
On 2nd September he proposed after being together for 8 months. We purchased a home after putting our 2 properties on the market. We move in tomorrow & we are super excited.
We have been planning the wedding & now only have 3 months til the big day!
I am so thankful I gave Oasis Active a go as I thought my chances of finding the one was going to be hard in my mid 30's.
