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What can I say, I’m the girl who loved the bad boys but learnt my lesson and decided to try Oasis to find a 'nice man'. One that didn’t hurt me, had enough of all that.
I received a message from him and on first look I would not have normally been interested as he wasn’t my traditional type, if you like (how shallow was I?) But he lived near so I agreed to hook up one lunchtime. Even when we meet I wasn’t interested in a relationship with him, but thought ‘oh well’ what the hell he will be fun to go out with from time to time.
The following week we went out for friendly drinks to the local, when I thought ‘hey’ there is something really special about this guy. I guess because it wasn’t like dating we could be ourselves and be relaxed straight off the bat.
He was so funny and just had an amazing personality. Since this day we have continued to grow closer and closer until after 2 months of being together, we finally cracked and told each other that we were in love. Our love is so strong and it has come from nowhere, this was no lust story, but we have both never felt so strongly about each other it is truly amazing and I love knowing just what true love feels like.
I realise I was never really in love before but in lust. He is my best friend, my soul mate my lover just everything to me and I can’t bear being apart from him. We realised that our paths had crossed many times but never met until now but now the time is right for both of us I can honestly say I have never been happier..
Thankyou Oasis xxx
I had been on Oasis for a few years, with no luck. I was about to give up hope, when one night on my 21st birthday 2011 I started chatting to this amazing guy.
After having a bad night I decided I would call him, we spoke for a few hours when we agreed to meet. We met on Feb 5th 2011, we went to a drive in movie and had few drinks, and it felt like I had known him for years.
From there we started dating and have not been separated in 8 months! We are still going Strong and have started planning a wedding for next year
Thank you Oasis!
I wasn't expecting anything serious when I joined and my profile was vague.
However, I met up with one person from Oasis in September 2010. He proposed to me in Paris at the Sacre Coeur on 10th September 2011.
I am truly grateful to Oasis as we would never would have found each other without you. He really is the love of my life and I have never been happier.
Thank you so much.
9 months ago I met my now fiancé. If anyone else had of told me that it happened to them I would of thought, Whatever! I am very happy and totally in love, planning the wedding of my dreams.
So ladies, if you think it's just not happening for you, think positively and start clicking, because the man of your dreams could possibly only be a mouse click away!
It all started when a bunch of my friends began emailing me requests to join Oasis Active. I was a bit unsure at the start after hearing stories from friends about unsuccessful meetings. I had just come back from overseas and wasn't looking to meet anyone soon. I was enjoying single life and the many opportunities to travel the world in the future.
One Friday night I having a quiet night flipping through my emails. I came across another Oasis Active invite and thought to myself 'why not!?", "what do I have to lose?" I signed up and created my profile thinking what a hilarious social experiment this would be.
After a few hours I received a request from a gentleman around my age. He seemed cute in his photo and I noticed he followed the same football team as me. I added him and began to tell him the reason why I was on this site. He laughed at my idea of a social experiment and so it began.
We started talking that night. It was a different kind of conversation. It was far from the "hi, how are you?", "what food do you like?", "what's your favourite t.v show" types of conversations I previously had with other members. This conversation had substance and character.
After 2-3 weeks of chatting to each other via the site, I realised that this so called 'social experiment' was starting to make me nervous. I found myself thinking, "Could this be something other than friendly chats over the internet?" The thought quickly left my mind the moment it entered and I laughed at the idea of meeting someone especially at this time in my life, and over the internet!
But fate always has its way, doesn't it? On Valentine's Day he asked for my number. I gave it to him thinking "it's only a phone number". That phone number lead to numerous texts throughout the day and late night conversations for a 2 week period. Our "spark" and "wit" transferred from the keyboard to spoken word. It was something I was crazy to ignore.
We finally decided to meet up. And surprisingly I was excited to meet this mystery man I had spent the last month speaking too. We met up on a hot, sunny Saturday afternoon at a local pub. We chatted over a few drinks (liquid courage!) and it was like we had known each other for years.
We said our goodbyes and that was that. So I thought. 45 minutes later he sent a text saying he had a great time and would like to meet up again. Being a female, a lot of questions went through my mind, but sometimes in life you just got to take that chance. And so I did.
That road has taken me on an amazing ride. After a month of friendship we decided to give it a go. Let's take another risk in life and make the most of it. 6 months later we are still together. He has definitely taken me out of my comfort zone (which was a definition on my profile!) and showed me the pleasures of life. And that single girl with dreams of travel? Those dreams are still there and they are being shared with someone I care about and love. We are going overseas together in the new year and I could not be happier.
It is amazing what happens when you take risks in life. And I believe you always find what you are looking for, when you actually stop looking.